A complete guide to finding love and happiness. Find out how you can attract your dream partner and a life of love and joy!
Do you dream of finding true love and happiness, but you simply don’t know where to start looking? Or perhaps you’ve been searching for love for years, just not in the right places. After all this time you’ve probably started to lose confidence and hope.
Love and happiness might seem like an impossible dream; a made-up fairytale that doesn’t exist in real life, but did you know that anything is possible if you want it enough?
Our complete guide will break down all the complexities surrounding love and happiness, and will show you how to attract romance that will enrich your life and soothe your soul, all through the power of manifestation!
Novels and films from across the years depict romantic relationships as the ultimate source of happiness. The whirlwind courtship, the steamy sex, and the fairytale wedding are all part of the cliché.
People all over the world, male and female, chase this idyllic love story long into their adult lives, yet many fail to find true love. If they do, feelings of love aren’t necessarily paired with pure happiness.
The sad reality is that love can actually create a whole lot of misery. It’s undeniable. We’ve all experienced heartbreak at some point in our lives, whether it’s unrequited love or just plain old betrayal ‒ love, more often than not, ends in tears. So the question is, if love only results in sadness, why are we all hardwired to chase it?
While everything we’ve just said is absolutely true, that love often causes misery, it can in fact result in pure unadulterated happiness. It’s simply a question of knowing what this kind of incredible love looks like, and how you can experience it in your lifetime.
The same can be said of most things in life; if you know how to clear your mind of all the negative energy that prevents you from experiencing joy on a daily basis, then you have the power to attract pretty much anything you want ‒ love, wealth, health, and happiness ‒ into your life.
The key to finding love and happiness is actively seeking it out and attracting it into your life. Ask yourself questions and constantly assess your happiness. Do you feel that something is missing from your life? Are you really as happy as you think? Would love enrich your life?
If you accept your life exactly the way it is and don’t question anything, then you’ll never achieve true happiness. You’ll stay exactly where you are, and nothing will change.
Don’t wait until tomorrow to transform your life and experience incredible relationships that will fill your world with joy. Love and happiness is in your hands ‒ it’s within reach, and only a few simple steps away.
Chase what you want
Set your sights on love and chase it! If you don’t have love in your life, don’t sit back and accept your circumstances because you’ll only wind up unhappy. If you find someone special, put in the effort to make the relationship work. Let your love interest know how you feel. You’re the only person that can make changes to your life, so take back the reins today.
Say goodbye to toxic relationships
Bad relationships can have a negative impact on your health, happiness, and general wellbeing. If you’re thinking of entering a new relationship, have a serious think about whether or not it will enrich your life. Will this new love make you happy? Or will it lead to more heartbreak? If you’ve been with your partner for a long time yet you feel like something is wrong, have the courage to say goodbye.
Forget your fear
Love is often found in the most unexpected of places, so don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and step outside your comfort zone. It’s perfectly normal to feel scared of being hurt in the future if you’ve been heartbroken before, but remember that no two people are the same. Try not to shut new love interests out of your life, and don’t be afraid to open up to new people.
The key to achieving love and happiness is to give your negative mindset an overhaul. Did you know that your mind is hardwired to limit your beliefs and make you forget all the incredible things you can achieve? It’s the same situation with love. It’s possible to attract love into your life if you truly believe it’s possible, so stay positive. Reprogram your mind to prevent your limiting subconscious from telling you that you can’t experience love and happiness, because trust us, you can!
Research shows that people who are happy within themselves are much more likely to attract love into their lives. True happiness comes from a place deep within you, so make sure you work on yourself before turning your attention to others. If you love yourself then you’ll be much more aware of what makes you happy and what causes you pain. This will give you the confidence to chase relationships that are good for you, plus you certainly won’t be putting up with any mistreatment in a relationship.
It’s important to remember that each and every romantic relationship is unique. It depends on the two people involved and how they treat each other. Everyone has different priorities when it comes to relationships; the kind of love they want to give and take, and what they want to experience. It’s the unique qualities of any partnership that either make love last forever, or ultimately, break it apart.
Although each relationship and the people in it are unique, research shows that every partnership should have seven key attributes that define it as happy and healthy. In other words, if your relationship is missing any of these characteristics then you might have some work to do.
Loyalty between you and your partner
It can be a source of great happiness and comfort to know that your partner has your back when times get tough. Your partner should be your greatest advocate, shielding you from harm, and defending you against others.
You have the same priorities
For both you and your partner, your relationship should be one of the main priorities in your lives. It can be a challenge to dedicate enough time to a relationship, especially when there are children, jobs, and other commitments taking your attention. Making an effort to spend quality time with your love is a sign of a healthy relationship.
Respect between you and your partner
Showing your partner respect and being treated with respect in return is the foundation of any successful relationship. Your partner should respect you as an equal, and treat you as they would expect to be treated themselves. Your opinions, feelings, and decisions should be listened to and valued.
Signs of affirmation
So your partner says he or she loves you, but do they show it? Those three magic words are not the be-all and end-all of a relationship; love needs to be shown, both physically and through romantic gestures. Physical intimacy is important on many levels, and so are words of affirmation. Your partner should tell you and show you they love you regularly, perhaps going out of their way to give you a gift or a gesture that demonstrates their feelings.
Know when to let things go
It’s perfectly normal to have disagreements in a relationship. If you hide your feelings from your partner and refrain from speaking your mind, then this is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. However, if something really doesn’t need to be said then don’t say it. In a well-functioning partnership, you should each know which battles to fight and when to wave the white flag.
Nobody is perfect, not even you! It’s normal for there to be tough moments in a relationship or things about your partner that get on your nerves. Try to focus on the positive aspects of your partnership; the joyful moments, and your love’s best attributes.
Make an effort
For a relationship to stand the test of time, you and your partner will need to put in the effort. There will be times that you’ll need to make sacrifices for your love, putting your partner’s needs ahead of yours. Remember, a relationship is a living and growing thing. You’ll only experience love if you give a little back.
If you recognize each of the characteristics above in your relationship, then you’re well on your way to achieving love and happiness.
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For those of you who haven’t happened across manifestation before, what we’re about to tell you might sound a little bit like magic ‒ and that’s because it is! The main principle of manifestation comes from the law of attraction, where our thoughts can directly translate into reality. Sounds pretty supernatural, huh?
Now we’re going to reveal the four steps you need to take to start transforming your dreams into reality. First of all, you should take a good look around you ‒ at where you are and who you’re with. You should also think about how you feel. Your current reality is defined by the following three things:
The story of your life that you’re telling yourself and those around you
The belief systems that limit you ‒ you probably don’t know they exist
The fear that defines what you can’t achieve
The three things above make up your subconscious, and they are your worst enemy. That’s because your story, your limiting beliefs, and your fear prevent you from finding true love and happiness. But don’t worry, it’s possible to reprogram your subconscious and unlock your mind’s inner power to cut through limitations and successfully manifest what you desire. Follow these simple steps:
Decide on your version of love and happiness
To manifest love and happiness, you need to be sure of your exact desires and intentions. It might help to write them down. Decide whether or not a person or experience will enrich your life and make you truly happy ‒ if not, then don’t waste time and energy trying to manifest them.
Erase negative thoughts
As we mentioned before, it’s positive people who are most successful in attracting love and happiness. Try to expel all negativity from your life, and free your mind from the limiting beliefs that are holding you back.
Focus on what you want to achieve
So you’ve decided what you want and now it’s time to turn your thoughts into reality. Let love and happiness fill your mind. Visualize it and concentrate on it. Imagine your dream partner walking into your life, or visualize the wedding that you’ve always wanted.
Stay patient and peaceful
Waiting for your manifestation to take place can be stressful and frustrating. Try not to let negative thoughts fill your mind because they could slow down the manifestation process. Remember to follow your instincts ‒ if you feel an urge to go somewhere or speak to someone, then do it. This could be your new reality taking shape!
Manifestation is a daunting concept, but it can be simple when you get the hang of it. Be conscious of the love and happiness you desire and it could be yours before you know it!
Love and happiness is within your reach, you only need to reach out and grab it.